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Bella Bankes's avatar

Beautifully written.

Sometimes the decluttering or finding surges of energy around the house help clear mind clutter as well, almost as if to say - "you'll be able to focus once you stop thinking about [ this or that ]"

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Madeleine Dore's avatar

Absolutely! ❤️

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This Wild and Precious Life's avatar

I love the idea of letting something percolate in our subconscious and using our energy around completing a project/task as a guide about whether we need to let it percolate more. So good!

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Madeleine Dore's avatar

I also just love the word percolate! ❤️

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tao te chic's avatar

big fan of the lying down thing, even better if it's a hard wood floor. something about being close to earth just...changes things. loved this!

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Madeleine Dore's avatar

Oh I love this — let's get on the floor more! (Also a nice segue to next week's interview — stay tuned!)

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Erica Perry's avatar

I absolutely needed to read this. I am such a sucker for trying to force my creativity out like toothpaste!! going where the vibes are feels like a forever lesson. LOVE this perspective

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Madeleine Dore's avatar

"Like toothpaste" captures this experience perfectly! Thank you for reading ❤️

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Tabea Verena's avatar

this really changed the trajectory of my days. thank you so much for talking about this! it's really not spoken about enough!

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Madeleine Dore's avatar

I agree, things like trust and intuition can become lost in optimisation ❤️

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Louise Hallam's avatar

I love this Madeleine and the idea that what's being created is still having a nice little nap, so let it be. I find more and more that I really have to feel the energy of what I'm doing in order to get involved. This is the flow that I'm looking for, otherwise I'll turn to something else like you say. And yes to taking time out, it's where the best things come from!

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Madeleine Dore's avatar

Yes to finding the flow we are looking for! ❤️

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Nina Barretta's avatar

Yes... Pausing or taking a nap at times is a very good idea 😊

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Ayanna Nicole's avatar

Such wisdom. I live by this ❤️

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Madeleine Dore's avatar

❤️

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Emma Gannon's avatar

Love this - and v pro nap also! <3

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Madeleine Dore's avatar

A day changer! ❤️

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Ross Walters's avatar

Seems to be the opposite of the “frog task” concept.

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Madeleine Dore's avatar

Absolutely — in my book 'I Didn't Do The Thing Today' I go even further detail about an alternative, "eat the clotted cream method" which is about starting with our own version of delight each day ❤️

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Shan's avatar

Thank you for this. Perfect tonic for my procrastination.

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Madeleine Dore's avatar

... or should we say percolation! ❤️

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Paul Jun's avatar

I held off on publishing and writing about things. This post gave me encouragement and was so timely. Love this!

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Madeleine Dore's avatar

I'm glad Paul! And so lovely to see you here ❤️

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Amy Brown's avatar

I am increasingly giving in more to joy, living these lines: “If you suddenly and unexpectedly feel joy, don’t hesitate. Give in to it.”— Mary Oliver, and Sondheim's advice to write lying down...perhaps that's why my most creative thoughts come when early in the morning, crawling back into bed, my tea tray beside me, lingering in that dreamspace to access the part of my brain that isn't fully awake.

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Madeleine Dore's avatar

Your morning sounds delicious! Thanks for sharing Amy ❤️

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Mo Issa's avatar

Thanks for this post. I feel the same way as you do when I write and don't write. However, I still find myself conflicted on whether to wait for the muse or ignore it and start writing, and then it will duly join. One day I feel like that well-drilled journalist, whilst on other days, I'm not.

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Madeleine Dore's avatar

Ah, yes Mo! This is the ever present tension — when do we need to allow more space for the thing to percolate, and when do we need to simply face the thing? I think it does ebb and flow day by day, and the answer comes in experimenting, observing, and knowing thyself ❤️

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Deborah Demander's avatar

Love this! I struggle with doing the things I want to do, over those I feel I must. Most of my life, I felt my value linked directly to my productivity. I am slowly loosening the grip. Allowing myself to soften into the pleasure of desire. Doing the little things that bring peace, joy and pleasure to my life. Thank you for permission.

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