A symptom of being stuck, for me, is asking ‘how’ repeatedly.
How do I take the next step?
How do I build my career?
How do I shape the life I want?
Alongside my appeals to search engines, I’ve put how-to questions to people—how do you find time for creative work? How did you meet your partner? How do you make it through the day?
And I’m not alone. Our cult…